People were asking “Why having second thought??,if you love him/her then why not get married soon?”
Then i would asked, “Why or How do you find it so easy to just settle down and be the quickiest to say YES? and after how many years just end up divorcing, separating, etc..”
You just can’t elaborately explain the answer to those “WHY”, because some people just simply don’t get your point.. :P Yes, ofcourse “thought are just thought, it isn’t an action”. BUT, don’t forget that sometimes those thoughts really happen.
Here’s a thing: if you’re having second thought then don’t pursue it, for now.. if your partner would understand it, then good. but if not, it’s about time to go separate ways. (in the first place you won’t be having second thought about it if you feel it’s so DAMN perfect right?)